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Sunday, July 1

What To Wear.....

Your style of working attire makes a tremendous difference to the type of clientele you'll attract.

Dressing in an elegant, feminine way will attract a different type of client than say,
a tight, skimpy revealing dress in fire-engine red!

Too many girls don't put enough thought into what they're wearing, then complain constantly that the only clients they're getting is the leftovers from the local pub.

The most successful ladies I've had the pleasure of working with all presented themselves beautifully.

Several of them had found a particular dress that looked amazing on them, and bought it in different colours!

Another great idea is to wade through all the second hand clothing stores you can find
, you'll be amazed at the number of gorgeous things you can pick up if you look hard enough.

Also remember that if you're planning on doing outcalls, (visiting with a client at their home, hotel etc) you'll also need to have an outfit or two that is simple, stylish and warm to wear. (Most clientele prefer that you don't arrive at their door looking like a cheap slapper :) It is also a good idea to have a small bag to take condoms etc in, and a mobile phone.

Here are some idea
s:






This is a great example of an outfit suitable for an evening shift in an upmarket establishment. Elegant, formal, feminine and is a great colour.








Another example of the type of attire you might
find on an evening shift in an upmarket Parlour.











You might find dresses like this on a day shift in an upmarket place.










In an average Parlour, you'll see alot of this type of dress.








Another example of an average dress....









If you're shopping for working clothes, always remember to TRY ON the things you like BEFORE you buy them:
just because you've seen a certain dress look fabulous on someone else,
it doesn't mean the same dress is going to look good on YOU.....

Other things you might want to consider taking with you if you're working in a Parlour -
  • A warm cozy jacket
  • enough money for petrol/cab-fare home in case you don't get a booking
  • Some reading material
  • Bottled water
  • Playing cards
  • A sample of your fave music if the place accommodates personal choice music
  • Your sense of humour :)
  • Some healthy snacks to graze on
H x.

So what really goes on in a brothel?

Following is some general information about what to expect if you're considering:
working in an established Parlour.

*Please note that this info is based on MY experiences in Australia and New Zealand, and is my opinion only.
You may find conditions to be different, depending on the management of a particular place.*

  • In a usual environment, there will be a receptionist or manager onsite who takes phone calls, greets clients as they arrive, and also collect the clients money, either directly from the client or from you.
  • Working girls are usually expected to remain in a "dressing room" or girls lounge untill a client arrives.
  • Depending on the policies of the parlour and the laws in your area, these dressing rooms can be crowded, messy and usually filled with ciggarette smoke as a great deal of girls chainsmoke while waiting around bored.
  • You will usually be expected to arrive half an hour before your shift starts, to ensure you are ready for presentation to clientele.
  • Dress codes vary from place to place, but the general rules are to wear something feminine and flattering. It is also a good idea not to go out and buy a whole load of outfits in the same colour - there is nothing worse than seeing a group of working girls all dressed in black, you are not at a funeral!
  • Inquire before you start if the parlour organises "food runs" for the girls, or if you're expected to bring something with you, as most places frown upon girls leaving the premises in the middle of a shift to get something to eat.
  • All registered brothels are required by law to provide you with condoms, lubricants, tissues etc, so unless your preference is for a specific brand, you won't have to bring your own.
  • You will usually be shown the "correct way" of remaking your room after a client visit, some places are extremely pedantic about getting it right, (especially if girls are sharing the same rooms) and you'll hear nothing but whinging if you don't! *also make sure you check to make sure there arn't dirty condoms and tissues left in the room for the next arrival to see, it gives clients the impression that the establishment isn't hygienic, and are well within their rights to complain.
  • The procedure for being introduced to clients differ from place to place, but these are the usual introduction methods- *You wait in the dressing room, and are called out separately to introduce yourself *You wait in the dressing room untill a client arrives and then are all called out at the same time for the client to "view" (this is called a "line-up"and is the most disliked introduction according to girls and clientele I've encountered) *All the girls on shift are free to wait in the main lounge (or bar if there is one) until a client arrives and is able to "mingle" with the girls untill he/she feels comfortable in making the right choice.
  • Normally the policy for discussing your clientele with other girls, is "Don't". This is an absolutely riduculous rule, and creates a dangerous environment to work in! Girls will ALWAYS pass on relevant information to each other, it's how we "bond". It is necessary to share your experiences particularly of difficult, pushy, or violent clients; remeber knowledge is power. You have the right to refuse to visit with a client you know to be difficult, in fact you have a right to not visit with ANY client you don't want to for any reason at all. If your management forces or coerces you against your will to perform any duties, they are breaking the Law, and can be convicted accordingly.
  • It is important to ask BEFORE you agree to start work in any place how your income is handled. For example I worked in a slightly dodgy place in Sydney years back where you had to work a minimum of 4 shifts, and your money wasn't given back to you untill leaving on the last one. THIS IS BLACKMAIL. Make sure that if you are handing YOUR money over to the care of a receptionist/manager, that they give it BACK to you at the end of the SAME shift.


Please email me if you'd like any further information about this post,
Hugs & Kisses,
H x.